On that same topic, some apt words from Pinko Feminist Hellcat:
Abortion apparently hurts women because we just can't take the thought of killing our babies; however, giving them up for adoption is just like giving away a pair of shoes. Gosh, it's easy, and those naughty sluts who decide they don't want to give their children up for adoption after all are selfish whores! Don't they realize that there are people out there who want their baby?
Of course, people who would force women to breed for their benefit aren't selfish. Not at all.
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Sjusju,
I have another grrrl blogger to read! Your post had me at Pinko Feminist Hellcat faster than you can say yippee I've got my period.
excellent! she's quality n'est ce pas? if you get in quick, she might even allocate you a ministry...
http://pinkofeministhellcat.typepad.com/pinko_feminist_hellcat/2005/02/presidentforlif.html
Followed the lead to the tragic Demi through the FAB PINKO and was so blown away by that woman's resentment that I could not leave a comment. did it at PINKO then reconsidered, went back to Demi and gave her this, which I hope will help her see her biomother differently:Poor Demi - she was so worked-up I could not bear to add a comment at her place. The IQ thing was a worry and I assumed her use of 'garnished' for 'garnisheed' was just a typo.
I relinquished in 1968 and I know the pain. The father had no interest in being a father 'fatherhood is not my image' he told my baby self. He was a law student slash musician. His manager gave him cash for a termination (in the interest of the image of the band). I threw it at them. I was happy to be having his child because I loved him and thought that when he saw it he would love it. he never saw it, I never saw it. Hospitals have ways of fixing that. when I screamed the place down for us to see it they moved me to another hospital away from the baby. I realised I could not give it the decent life it deserved as I was 3 weeks behind in my rent. the gas and electric had been disconnected, and I had had nothing to eat for 3 days before I went into labour. I passed this infant into the hands of people who had been assessed as decent. I tortured myself for the sake of the infant. Maybe Demi's mother was the same and Demi's IQ is so high it is preventing her from seeing that.
Our Mate Marcel is a creep and I flung him a mug of malice after some idiotic thing he said at Karma2Burn. I was vile and I am so unrepentant I want to share it with you and everybody:
Marcel honey, you are such a masochist to be 'touring the left's opinions' as you put it. I can tell you from personal experience of both procedures, and by the way if you don't have personal experience then you should not comment, that termination caused only a minor and fleeting sense of loss, whereas birth and relinquishment has brought intense grief that no extent of shopping or drinking can alleviate and which has not abated in any way despite subsequent children and reuniting with The Relinquished.
So why don't you stick your head up your arse and see how your dick feels.
and Marcel honey, while you are thinking I must be a total slut, I want you to know that every one of my conceptions had the same father, and that my termination was a wholly self funded Nicholson St backyarder.
My mother who threw me out, was educated by nuns who bashed her stupid, probably because they were horny, it could not have been because they were vicious papist shits like you could it?
Brownie: I think Demi clearly feels really rejected by her birth mother (although, chances are, she was and is still very much loved and wanted, and her mum is in just as much pain) and is taking it out on all pro-choice women as a result.
so sorry to hear about your relinquishment and the lack of support you received - that is awful! My mum walked to hospital by herself when she went into labour. It is a human rights abuse for a state to allow pregnant women to go hungry.
marcel deserves all the malice you can fling at him. His starting point for his anti-abortion obsession seems to be a basic disregard for women - as far as he's concerned they shouldn't be allowed to vote, let alone make their own reproductive decisions. And he'd much prefer to harrass women in the name of saving abstract "unborn souls" than do anything about suffering and injustice amongst the living.
Caring about independent breathing human beings is just too complicated for him, as they tend to answer back when you try to claim them for your god-bothering cause.
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